The first response to the disapperance of the partner consists in the anxious attempt to find him again. The goose moves about restlessly by day and night, flying great distances and visiting places where the partner might be found, uttering all the time the pentratrating trisyllable long-distance call…..the searching expeditions are extended farther and farther and quite often the searcher gets lost, or succumbs to an accident….All the objective observable characteristics of the goose’s behavior on loosing its mate are roughly identical with human grief.
William Worden in Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy quotes the work of ethnologist Konrad Lorenz above. It describes the biological crisis associated with loss beyond rational and emotional articulation.
Yoga and meditation may address such non-verbal and primal instinct through breath and body awareness. It may help ease that biological need to keep searching outside ourselves for our loved ones.
I’ll keep reading.
Wishing you grounded calmness unlike the restless, anxious and lost goose,
*I didn’t have an image of geese…….but we can imagine the restless flight.